Sunday, 6 April 2025

Glamorous Gifting: My Charlotte Tilbury Prize from a Blogger Friend

 

Luxury beauty haul – Charlotte Tilbury makeup essentials and skincare.


Welcome back

There’s nothing quite like the excitement of receiving a surprise gift—especially when it’s from a friend and fellow blogger and is filled with luxury beauty treats! 

A couple of months ago, I was pleasantly surprised when a thoughtful gift from Charlotte Tilbury arrived from my lovely blogging friend Georgina.  She has been sending out these special gifts as a way to show appreciation for those who support her on social media and in general.  It’s such a kind gesture, and I’m so grateful to be among those she’s sent a gift to. Thank you Georgina, for your generosity and for being such a lovely friend and inspiration.

Over the last few months or maybe a year, I'm not too sure, Georgina has been sending the gifts out, and I couldn’t wait to share the excitement of my gift with you all. If you love high-end beauty, gorgeous packaging, and cult-favorite makeup, you’re in for a treat. 

First, I am going to share some info about the lovely Georgina. 

About Georgina:

Info taken from Georgina's blog She Might Be Loved

I’m Georgina Grogan, a 30-year-old, Sheffield-based, full-time blogger and freelance social media manager. She Might Be Loved was established in 2013, followed by my online magazine, She Might Be, in 2016. I’m a cat mum of three: Anya, Bella and Coco. I’m the owner of the most high-maintenance red hair, where even my bathroom is mostly red and completely makeup-obsessed. I’m disabled, and my official conditions are chronic pain of the spinal region and chronic fatigue syndrome/myalgic encephalomyelitis or CFS/ME for short.
This blog features everything from talking about being disabled to my cats, travels, family life, favourite food, and so much more.

During my two years working in retail at Lush Cosmetics, I wanted to go somewhere where I could share my passions and explore them more. She Might Be Loved was born and has since grown at an incredible pace that blows my mind. Just one year into blogging, I left my day job and became self-employed as a Freelance Social Media Manager for Beauty and Fashion brands and a full-time blogger.

Now, let’s dive into this amazing Charlotte Tilbury box and see what’s inside!


My Charlotte Tilbury Gift Box:

Charlotte Tilbury packaging – iconic rose gold beauty products

Charlotte Tilbury gift box – luxury beauty gift from a blogger friend



Charlotte Tilbury Mini Collagen Lip Bath Icons:

Charlotte Tilbury Airbrush Flawless Foundation and Magic Cream – must-have beauty products

The Mini Collagen Lip Bath Icons are a lovely set of lipglosses. They aren't full-size, obviously ZoĆ«, they're called "mini" for a reason! They are a good size though and more than big enough. They have a cute heart shaped applicator which applies the gloss nicely and evenly. 

The gloss isn't sticky, which for me is everything because I shy away from lip gloss because I can't bear the sticky formula some have where my hair ends up stuck to my lips. it's not a good look and feels awful - yuck! 

Refresh Rose isn't clear, it has a little something and gives the lips a lovely shine and can be worn alone or over any lipstick. The mini collagen lip baths are enriched with skin care ingredients, leaving the lips plump and hydrated. 

Pillow Talk Medium and Pillow Talk Original have a lovely colour payoff and look great alone or over the top of the corresponding lipstick. 

You can find the Mini Collagen Lip Bath Icons set HERE priced at £27.00




Charlotte Tilbury K.I.S.S.I.N.G Lipstick in Stoned Rose:

Luxury Charlotte Tilbury beauty products – lipstick, eyeshadow, and highlighter

The lipstick in the shade Stoned Rose is described on the Charlotte Tilbury website as a warm coral rose lipstick with a magic moisturising satin finish. I personally wouldn't describe the shade as coral rose, it's more of a terracotta or burnt orange to me, much darker than coral rose. The finish is lovely, it's a satin finish, and it feels lovely on the lips, hydrating and comfortable and is long lasting too. It's a lovely formula, and the packaging, as with all Charlotte Tilbury, is stunning. 

You can find the K.I.S.S.I.N.G. lipstick HERE priced at £29.00

Charlotte Tilbury Pillow Talk lipstick and blush – best-selling makeup shades



Air Brush Flawless Lip Blur in Walk Of No Shame Blur:

Unboxing a Charlotte Tilbury beauty giveaway prize – luxury makeup gift

Described by Charlotte Tilbury as a weightless, modern, matte meets moisture liquid lipstick, the air brush effect for your lips, with powder blur technology and hyaluronic acid, the lipstick is said to last 12 hours, and your lips stay hydrated for 24 hours. 

The lipstick can be worn blurred or bold, depending on your preference. The applicator is diamond shape and applies the lipstick with ease. The shape of the applicator makes applying the lipstick effortless. The lipstick feels nice on the lips and is not drying at all, which is an issue I have with other matte liquid lipsticks. Adding a small amount and blurring with my fingertip gives a nice flush of colour and lasts really well, it didn't feel drying and gave a gorgeous colour. 

Applying the lipstick straight from the applicator gives a beautiful bold lip that doesn't look crusty dusty or feel it. My lips looked and felt hydrated throughout the day and the lipstick did not budge, it has fantastic staying power, even after eating and drinking. The formula is lovely and like nothing I have in my makeup collection, I am definitely going to check out some of the other shades. 

You can find the Airbrush Flawless Lip Blur HERE priced at £29.00


Unboxing a Charlotte Tilbury beauty giveaway prize – luxury makeup gift. Charlotte Tilbury makeup swatches – highly pigmented lipstick and lipglosses.




Hyaluronic Happikiss Lipstick Balm In Pillow Talk:

Unboxing a Charlotte Tilbury beauty giveaway prize – luxury makeup gift. Charlotte Tilbury makeup swatches – highly pigmented lipstick and lipglosses.

The happikiss lipstick balm is described as a next generation multi magic lipstick gloss balm, formulated with hyaluronic acid and c-peptide for hydrated and fuller looking lips, with a fondue-like texture. 

Having not tried fondue, I can't comment on the fondue-like texture, but the lipstick balm does feel lovely on the lips and has a beautiful glossy finish. I was shocked at the pigment of the lipstick balm. Most lipstick balm-type products I have tried are only slightly pigmented with a bit of colour, and they never last on me, but the happikiss is a lovely shade and lasted really well, even after eating and drinking. 

This is definitely one of my favourite items in the box. 

You can find the Hyaluronic Happikiss Lipstick Balm  HERE priced at £27.00

Unboxing a Charlotte Tilbury beauty giveaway prize – luxury makeup gift. Charlotte Tilbury makeup swatches – highly pigmented lipstick and lipglosses.

Unboxing a Charlotte Tilbury beauty giveaway prize – luxury makeup gift. Charlotte Tilbury makeup swatches – highly pigmented lipstick and lipglosses.



Matte Revolution Lipstick - Holywood Vixen:

Unboxing a Charlotte Tilbury beauty giveaway prize – luxury makeup gift. Charlotte Tilbury makeup swatches – highly pigmented lipstick and lipglosses.

Charlotte Tilbury describes the Matte Revolution lipstick in the shade Holywood Vixen as " a nuanced bright red lipstick in my modern matte formula, encased in a red tube!" and I'd say that's a pretty accurate description; the red case is gorgeous, and the lipstick is a beautiful red shade. 

I have a mini version of the lipstick, and it is very cute, but for me, a mini is perfect as I don't often wear a red lip, so a full size would more than likely go to waste. I love it when cosmetic companies sell minis,  for someone like me who doesn't wear makeup daily, or even weekly, they are perfect as they don't go to waste and I also love them for trying products too. 

I recently received the Mini Lip Kit In Pillow Talk Fair as a birthday gift and when asked if I was sure I wanted the mini, I said yes, because I wasn't sure if it would suit me as I struggle with nude lip shades, so it was perfect for me and despite the size of them, the mini lipsticks do last for a decent amount of time. 


Unboxing a Charlotte Tilbury beauty giveaway prize – luxury makeup gift. Charlotte Tilbury makeup swatches – highly pigmented lipstick and lipglosses.

How lovely is that packaging? It's stunning, as is the lipstick itself. 


Unboxing a Charlotte Tilbury beauty giveaway prize – luxury makeup gift. Charlotte Tilbury makeup swatches – highly pigmented lipstick and lipglosses.

What a gorgeous shade of red, I love it and it lasts so well, and doesn't feel drying on the lips like some matte formulas do. The lipstick has the hydrating matte formula, so although it gives a matte finish, it feels much more hydrating.  These lipsticks are great if you like the finish of a matte lipstick but not the feel. 

I struggle with some matte lipsticks as they feel so dry and look really awful on my lips, but I love this formula and will definitely be trying some more shades. I just wish they all came in coloured packaging. 

This is another favourite of mine, it's beautiful!

You can find the Matte Revolution Lipstick in Holywood Vixen HERE priced at £29.00 (full size) 

Unboxing a Charlotte Tilbury beauty giveaway prize – luxury makeup gift. Charlotte Tilbury makeup swatches – highly pigmented lipstick and lipglosses.


That's everything that was in my Charlotte Tilbury box of lip products, kindly gifted from the lovely Georgina, it was so kind of her to send this and I have loved being able to try out new products, I have found some that I love and will definitely be checking out more shades of those. 

Once again, a big thank you to Georgina. She is such a lovely person and a brilliant content creator, too, who is always happy to help or offer advice with anything too she's just lovely! 

If you're not already, please give Georgina a follow on her social media accounts and blog, which I will pop below. 

Follow Georginas Blog: HERE
Follow Georginas Instagram HERE
Follow Georginas Threads: HERE
Find all of Georginas links and discounts HERE

Have you tried any of the products mentioned in my post? If not, which do you like the look of most? 

Thank you for reading 

Zoƫ x




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Thursday, 6 March 2025

From Pages to Price Tags: The Financial Strain of World Book Day




World Book Day, world book day costumes, financial burden, affordable alternatives, reading celebration, stress for parents on world book day


Welcome back 

Today is World Book Day, and I wanted to see if you feel the same way as I do about it. My children are older, and I only had one World Book Day (WBD) to find an outfit for. I did, however, teach dance as an after-school activity in a primary school for many years and have experienced WBD many times there. My other half is a nursery teacher, and they celebrate WBD but differently, which I will come to later in the post. 

What Is World Book Day?

World Book Day is a charity event held annually in the United Kingdom and Ireland on the first Thursday in March. On World Book Day, every child in full-time education in the UK and Ireland is provided with a voucher to be spent on books; the event was first celebrated in the United Kingdom in 1998. 

Schools can register for free vouchers for each child to be given on World Book Day. The value of the voucher is £1.00, and there are some books priced at £1.00 for children to purchase, or they can put their voucher towards a book of their choice. The aim is for every child to have a book to read and to encourage reading as some children do not own a book of their own for varying reasons. 

World Book Day is meant to celebrate reading and encourage children to engage with books. In theory, it’s a fantastic initiative. However, in practice, it has become yet another financial burden for parents, particularly those already struggling with the cost of living. 

The Cost of Costumes:

Many schools encourage children to dress up as their favorite book characters, and while this may seem like harmless fun, the reality is that it often places undue pressure on parents. Not everyone has the time, resources, or skills to create a DIY costume, and shop bought outfits can be very expensive. Parents may then feel guilty if they can’t afford to buy their child a costume, leading to unnecessary stress.

I looked into the cost of the WBD costumes in two supermarkets and Sainsburys had quite a few to choose from but most were around £15.00 each, some £17.00 and some £20.00 which is a lot of money,  and Asda had a range that started at £8.00 and went up to £17.00, again expensive, and especially if you have more than one child who's celebrating WBD.  

Missing the Point:

World Book Day should be about fostering a love of reading, not about who has the best or most creative outfit. The focus should be on books and reading stories, sharing favourite books and celebrating reading in ways that don’t require spending money. Unfortunately, for many children, the emphasis has shifted from books to costumes, taking away from the day's true purpose. 

Whether we like it or not, most pre-school/nurseries and primary schools have children who always have the most elaborate costumes that cost the earth, this can make other children and their parents feel awful. Sadly, many children's parents simply cannot afford to buy or make outfits, and their child attends school/nursery in their usual school uniform. This causes stress for the parents and children, and some children will be mean to the children who aren't dressed up because, let's face it, kids can be cruel.  

None of that is what WBD is about, but it has become a competition for some. Some people use outfits they already have which fit the narrative, which is completely fine, and I'd do the same rather than buy an outfit that won't be worn again. That isn't really what WBD is about either, but it is very understandable why this is done.  

Alternatives That Make More Sense:

Instead of children dressing up, schools could encourage children to bring in their favorite book, take part in reading challenges, talk or write about their favourite book or story and why they love it, or maybe have a book swap. These activities would still engage children in the spirit of World Book Day without causing financial strain and lots of stress on families. 

Some schools and nurseries where I live have the children going in PJs and taking their favourite bedtime story into school to talk about and similar activities but not involving costumes. Quite a few did this last year. I haven't seen what they did today, but I would imagine it's a similar thing. 

My partner is a preschool/nursery teacher, and last year, children could go in PJs if they wanted to but didn't have to, and the staff made a cosy corner, and the children showed the class their favourite book or story and spoke about it. In previous years, the class have chosen a book they read and have read to them in class that they all love and they could if they liked go in in clothing that matched the colours in the theme of the book. 

One year, the book they chose was "Barry the Fish with Fingers" This book has a blue cover with orange, and Barry is blue and orange, so the children could wear blue and or orange, but it wasn't compulsory and the children loved speaking about the book and doing activities based on the book too. 

This year, they haven't done anything. The children will get their vouchers, and they will do activities surrounding reading and books, but there isn't a theme or dress code. The children will be told about WBD in a way that's relevant to their age, which is 3 and 4, and the day will focus on reading, books and stories, but there isn't any pressure at all on the parents.  

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Simon on WBD for Barry the Fish with Fingers

Final Thoughts:

While I appreciate the idea behind World Book Day, I believe it has strayed from its original purpose. The pressure to buy or create costumes creates an unnecessary stress on parents, and it’s time for schools/nurseries to rethink how they celebrate this day. Instead of dressing up, bring the focus back to books and ensure that all children can participate without their families feeling the strain, like some schools and nurseries do already do. It's just a shame it isn't a national thing. 

We don't need expensive costumes to celebrate WBD, and I'm not a grump and I understand some children love to dress up and show their friends their outfits, and that's lovely, but I do feel schools/nurseries need to read the room and be mindful of the fact, some parents dread WBD because they can't afford to eat, never mind find a costume their child may only wear once. If the pressure was removed completely and parents were told that next year, normal uniform/clothing was to be worn, but they were still celebrating WBD, I wonder how many parents would be relieved? 

What do you think? Do you feel pressure on WBD? 

Thank you for reading

Zoƫ x


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Thursday, 9 January 2025

Scales Are for Fish: How Diet Culture Preys on Us Every January


Diet culture, January diet trends, Toxic diet culture, New Year diet resolutions, Harmful diet myths, Restrictive eating dangers, Ditch the scale, Break free from weight-loss pressure


Welcome back and Happy New Year 

Today's post is all about diet culture, this is something I am very passionate about, I hope you enjoy the post and find it insightful. 

It's the start of a new year, the 6th of January as I start to write this, and as we are every year since goodness knows when, we are being inundated with posts on social media, magazine articles and television show segments and ads all about "New Year, New Me" and " How To Get A Bikini Body"  and other such things all surrounding losing weight and how we should all be de toxing after our festive indulgence. 

Before Christmas:

From around late summer, the supermarkets begin to fill their shelves with all sorts of festive products and in particular festive food, whilst we were on holiday in Greece in August 2024, someone I know uploaded a photograph to social media of mince pies they'd seen in Asda, in August!  

Then the TV ads begin and on daytime TV theres cookery segments sharing how to make different festive delights, the supermarket shelves soon fill up with more and more festive food and we are being shown TV shows comparing budget supermarket food versus higher end, for example the party food sold in Aldi compared to that sold in Ocado or M&S and guests trying the items and giving their opinions, basicially food is EVERYWHERE! 

Not only is food everywhere, we're being told how lovely these things are and how we should be "indulging" how we should grab certain offers and try the new XYZ flavour puddings, pies and party foods and before we know it, it's only October and we're having festive foods rammed down our throats on what feels like an hourly basis. 


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We are inundated with food suggestions from supermarkets for weeks before Christmas, the photo above is just a handful of ads I found online out of hundreds. It's not just supermarkets who ram the lovely food we need to be consuming down our throats though, coffee shops bring out their festive food and drinks menu, and even McDonalds have a festive menu, then theres the "which festive sandwich is best" segment on daytime TV sharing all the different ones available from various stores, so it really is everywhere. 

January 1st:

Before we've had chance to let our Christmas lunch go down, it starts, quite a lot before the new year, but then January comes round and it's like someone pressed the diet culture button and it's everywhere. TV adverts, Slimming World info posted through the door, gym membership discounts, countless segments on daytime TV about diets, weightloss, "good and bad" foods, people we know talking about how they're "being good" now or "making up for" what they've had over the festive period. 

Not only is all this eye rolling, it's dangerous, diet culture is dangerous for everyone, but especially those who suffer with eating disorders. 

For example, someone who has been brave enough to be in recovery from Anorexia, will see these things and if they've managed to eat a little more over Christmas and they see a TV ad about "good and bad" foods or "being good" this is like someone shouting at them "you're so fat, you ate a pig in blanket on Christmas day and now you'll put so much weight on and look hideous and everyone will despise you" it is so dangerous and also extremely upsetting for someone with Anorexia who managed to have some food over the festivities that they wouldn't usually eat. 

There are so many different diets out there, from clubs like Slimming World and Weightwatchers and then there's juice diets, milk shakes, soups, even tablets you can take. But the key thing to remember is, if diets worked you'd only need to do them once. 

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Diet Culture:  

What is diet culture?

Diet culture is a societal system of beliefs and practices that places a high value on being thin, equating it with health, beauty, and moral virtue. It promotes the idea that weight loss is the ultimate goal and that being thin will lead to happiness, success, and worthiness. Diet culture influences how people think about food, exercise, and their bodies, often leading to extremely harmful effects.

Diet culture is full of misleading messages that can be harmful. Here are some common "lies" it promotes:

  1. Thinness Equals Health.

    • Diet culture equates being thin with being healthy, ignoring that health comes in many shapes and sizes. This thought process dismisses the importance of mental health, genetics, and lifestyle factors.
  2. You Must Lose Weight to Be Happy.

    • It suggests that losing weight is the key to confidence, success, and happiness, promoting the belief that your worth is tied to your body size.
  3. There’s a “Perfect” Diet.

    • Promises of one-size-fits-all diets that work for everyone ignore the complexity of individual nutritional needs and preferences.
  4. Weight Loss Is Always a Good Thing.

    • Celebrating weight loss, regardless of the method or circumstances (e.g., illness, stress, disordered eating), reinforces harmful behaviors and ignores the risks.
  5. Certain Foods Are “Bad”

    • Labeling foods as “good” or “bad” creates guilt and shame around eating, contributing to unhealthy relationships with food.
  6. Fad Diets Are the Answer.

    • Quick fixes like juice cleanses, detox teas, milk shakes or restrictive plans often fail long-term and can harm physical and mental health.
  7. You Can Control Your Body Size Completely.

    • While lifestyle choices influence weight to some extent, genetics, hormones, and other factors play significant roles that aren’t within personal control.
  8. Dieting Is Willpower.

    • Failing at diets is often blamed on lack of willpower, but diets are designed to fail—95% of people regain the weight. This then leads to feelings of guilt and shame.
  9. Exercise Is Only for Weight Loss.

    • Exercise is valuable for mental health, strength, and well-being, but diet culture often reduces it to a punishment for eating, people feel they must swim 100 lengths or go to a spin class  because they ate a Jaffa Cake!
  10. New Year, New You.

    • The idea that January means we need a drastic change, it implies that you’re not good enough as you are, you need to look better, be better, doing nothing but preying on your insecurities.

Diet Culture uses lies to profit from peoples insecurities and feelings of needing to change themselves, I have spoken about diet culture on my SOCIAL MEDIA platforms many times and I will always challenge these lies and try my best to help people with their attitudes towards their bodies and how they see themselves. 

How Diet Culture Manifests:

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Media: 
TV advertising, magazines and social media very often promote diets and diet products, they promote and glorify thin bodies. 

The Workplace & Society: 
Often in the workplace we'll here people speak about their new diet or how they're "trying to be good" we hear chats about weight loss, how much people weigh and how many pounds they want to lose before their holidays, these types of conversations have become the norm amongst people without them realising how dangerous it can be. 

Healthcare Professionals:
BMI is still being used as a the sole indicator of what deems a "healthy weight" and it drives me mad. BMI is a waste of time completely, as a youngster I did a lot of sport, I was toned and to look at me, I looked underweight, I wore jeans in a 24W/30L but if I'd have had my BMI calculated, I'd have been overweight, I was very muscular and that combined with my genetics, my family tend to weigh heavy for some reason, I would have been told I was overweight. BMI is so outdated it's ridiculous and it really should not be used in 2025, there is a better way of working out if someone is overweight or underweight,  it's called our eyes, can't a healthcare proffesional see if a person is dangerously underweight? Why does an outdated BMI calculator need to tell them? 

Celebrating Weight Loss
Another thing that drives me mad, why is it that as soon as someone can see you have lost weight they say "oooh you've lost weight, well done" well done? What is it the person has done so well? We lose weight for so many reasons including health issues, grief, break ups, stress, medication and so many more things other than being on a diet. Yet, nobody considers this, in 2022/23 I went through what I can only describe as being absolute hell on earth, it was the hardest, most upsetting and worrying time of my life and I lost quite a lot of weight, someone I know told me how wonderful I looked and asked me how I'd done it, there wasn't an ounce of thought that I might NOT have tried to lose weight, especially as the person in question knows my daughter suffers from Anorexia and should know I wouldn't ever be on a diet. They just congratulated me on losing weight, if I hadn't made her feel bad, I would have told her exactly how I'd lost the weight. 

The Harming Effects Of Diet Culture:

Mental Health: 
Diet Culture can have a devastating effect on mental health, it can lead to anxiety, depression and is extremely dangerous for those suffering from an eating disorder. Although diet culture wouldn't be the sole cause of an eating disorder, it doesn't help and could 100% be a contributing factor, especially if someone is pre disposed to eating disorders already. 

Physical Health:
Over exercising and restring your food intake can be very detrimental to your health, going to a gym and using equiptment you have no knowledge of using, or doing a fitness class without knowing the correct way to lie or sit etc, could cause you to injure yourself. Calorie restriction is dangerous and can have a harmful effect on the body. 

Unsustainable Habits:
Diets failing can lead to yo yo dieting, metabolic damage and feelings of frustration because the diet or exercise plan you maybe following aren't sustainable long term. 

Low Self Esteem:
The whole new year new me thing can leave us feeling we need to change ourselves, feeling not good enough, not worthy of being happy. It's like having a devil on your shoulder telling you you're not loveable, not attractive, not worthy and it's the reason so many people try fad diet after fad diet and end up in the diet cycle and very unhappy. 


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Another thing I saw recently was an ad for a Zumba class with the wording "burn 1000 calories in one session" how stupid is that? This person takes people from age 10 too, how damaging for so many reasons and ridiculous! 

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Diet culture, January diet trends, Toxic diet culture, New Year diet resolutions, Harmful diet myths, Restrictive eating dangers, Ditch the scale, Break free from weight-loss pressure


How Can We Challenge Diet Culture:

"New Year, Same Me"

You do you and if you want to lose weight go for it, but please ask yourself first, why it is you want to lose weight, is it for health reasons? Do you need to lose weight before having surgery? Or is it because you have feelings of low self esteem and self worth and you're fitting in with society's idea of how you should look in your bikini on holiday? If you're going to spend every day thinking about food and what meals and snacks you can have that day before you've got out of bed or feeling hungry and trying to ignore it, over exercising,  because this can lead to dangerous habits, including calorie restriction and is it really worth it? A bikini body is no good if you're so ill you can no longer go on holiday to wear the bikini.  

Speak out to others about the dangers of diet culture, I'm not saying ram it down peoples throats, but if you can see an unhealthy pattern emerging with one of your friends or family, maybe bring it up in a sensitive way, how many people have you heard say or seen write on social media that they're "going back to Slimming World?" as I said earlier in the post, if diets worked, you'd only need to do them once and there wouldn't be a need to go back, but then the diet industry doesn't make it's money does it?

I wish more people would stop giving their hard earned money to diet culture, stop letting scales define you, they are as useless as BMI, if you stand on them in 4 differnt areas of your house, you will get 4 completley different readings, absolutely pointless! As I always say, scales are for fish and fish only, if you own some weighing scales, bin them! 

Your body does amazing things, it takes you where you need to be, it takes you to work, to socialise, on holiday, it looks after you, for some people it's grown babies, for others they've donated blood and platelets, or maybe an organ for a loved one, your body is amazing, and it tells a story of your life and everything you've been through, try to love it and not speak badly of it, calling it fat or ugly, speak kindly of it, it's the vessel that enables you to do all the things you love. 


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I know it can be hard, but try to love yourself, even if it's finding one thing you love about yourself, or stopping putting yourself down, your friends and family love you and think you're great, would they love you more if you were smaller? No they wouldn't, so many of us have said in the past that we'll do XYZ when we're thinner, why? If you want to do something do it, have a new hair restyle, try new makeup or step out of your comfort zone and try new fashions, but most of all, be happy and be kind to yourself. 

You are not defined by the number on a scale, and if you get that urge to weigh yourself just remember SCALES ARE FOR FISH 🐠   

And finally, whilst searching for the food images for this post, I found something I thought might be interesting to share in this post. 

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Photo found on google but is tagged the fitness chef. 


Thank you for reading, 

Zoƫ x







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Tuesday, 31 December 2024

Celebrate Every Journey: Reflecting on 2024 with Kindness and Pride

 

Reflecting on 2024 Mental health achievements Celebrating small wins Year-end motivation Self-care and kindness Overcoming challenges in 2024 Personal growth and resilience


Welcome back! 

I hope you’ve had a lovely Christmas, however you spent it. 

As we wind down after the festive season and start to look ahead to the New Year, it’s natural to reflect on the months gone by.

And as we approach the end of the year, we’ll no doubt keep seeing:

  • Compilations of people's highlights from 2024, set to music.
  • Lists of achievements and milestones reached.
  • Goals smashed and bucket list dreams ticked off.
  • Memes celebrating what a "great year" it’s been.

And you know what? That’s wonderful. If people have achieved their dreams, conquered their goals, and found happiness this year, let’s celebrate with them. That’s something to be proud of, and we should be happy for them.

But I also want to say this: if you simply woke up each day and made it through, no matter how hard it was, that’s an achievement too. For some, just getting through the day is a monumental goal—and you’ve done it. 

Be proud of yourself. I’m proud of you.

This year marks 10 years since I lost one of my close friends to suicide. It’s a pain that never goes away. And this year, I almost lost another friend the same way. Thankfully, I didn’t—and I can’t express how grateful I am for that. These things, no matter how upsetting and awful, make us think and reflect, it's natural. 

So, as we reflect on 2024, let’s remember this:

  • Everyone’s goals and achievements are personal to them.
  • Sharing those moments is their way of celebrating, and that’s ok, they have every right to do that.
  • But if you’ve battled through dark days, faced struggles, and kept going when it felt impossible, you’ve smashed it too.

If you’ve crossed off bucket list items or achieved big dreams, be proud of yourself and share those wins with the world, there's nothing wrong with championing yourself or your family shouting your achievements from the roof tops—you’ve earned it and have every right to be proud and your loved ones to be proud of you too. 

But if your biggest accomplishment was surviving, that’s just as worthy of celebration and you should feel proud too and your loved ones proud of you too, acheivments are just that, achievements, no matter in which form they come. 

So, if you have smashed 2024, ticked off bucket list items, got the promotion you wanted and worked hard for, or got your dream job, and you want to tell the world, tell them. Please don't feel you can't share because others may have not shared the same things as you. 

And, if you are proud that you're here, then don't feel bad for those who didn't make it, you made it and that's huge, celebrate your win. 

What I'm trying to say in my rambles, is:

No matter what your 2024 looked like, be proud of yourself. Keep being you. And most importantly, be kind—to yourself and to others. 

We never truly know what’s behind a smile or an “I’m fine.”

Thank you so much for reading, I hope this post can maybe help someone, if it helps you, that's amazing, and if you know someone you think it might help, please share it with them. 

Thank you for reading, 

I hope you all have a happy and healthy 2025

Happy New Year ♡

Zoƫ x



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